I guess I can’t go to Dallas. I went with some trans friends to a mens leather bar in Vancouver and it was so creepy, the doorman id’ed all of us, even though we were so not underage and some of us were passing pretty damn well. This wouldn’t immediately seem like transphobia, except he spent a very very very long time looking at all our id’s for the gender on them, which obviously didn’t correspond to who we were. It wasn’t specifically men only space, but he still wanted to make damn sure we knew we weren’t welcome.